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  1. Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach

    Very interesting about the Shakespeare. Lately I’ve been looking at Otello (the Verdi opera version particularly) as an emotional intelligence example gone bad. I coach emotional intelligence and am always looking for great illustrative stores and examples.
    When you say – if you’re not in touch with your feelings you are NOT in control of your life… I think Otello got lost in the reptilian. Iago got mad at him and wanted to do him in, and he never had to touch the man. All he had to do was wind Otello up, push the button and watch him self-destruct.
    Otello trusted whom he shouldn’t trust, and didn’t trust whom he should have. His passion overtook his reason, and also his “gut instincts.” Iago knew Otello better than he knew himself, guess why? Iago went for the reptilian sexual jealousy, and Otello’s basic insecurity about various things, and just jerked him around like a puppet.
    The opera itself is a replay of the triune brain.
    In the first act of the opera we see Otello the conqueror, the man in control (neocortex).
    In the second act, we see Otello the lover and husband (limbic).
    In the last act, we see what the unbridled reptilian brain can do. It’s eat or be eaten, kill or be killed. React. We see Otello kill himself because he has destroyed himself already, all except his body. Listen to Mario Lanza sing “Niun Mi Tema,” ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4sfXc5a5Y4 ) Otello’s lament before he kills himself. To lose it all … and at your own hand …
    Otello didn’t think it through. From the minute Iago started on him, he didn’t stop and think it through, but propelled himself forward at the reptilian level. And all Iago had to do was say a few things. When you aren’t in touch with your feelings, or able to manage them and to think, you are out-of-control, but ironically, very predictable, and this leaves you extremely vulnerable. That’s the irony of it.
    Great article and I love your site.
    Best, Susan Dunn, http://www.susandunn.cc

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